I don’t know about you, but I do not like being told what I think about my life. In fact, I want to shout it from the rooftops all the time. One of the reasons people don’t like being told what they should or shouldn’t do is because they can then never do it. I don’t want to tell you what to do. I just don’t like you telling me what I should do.
I actually think that saying “but I dont want to tell you what to do” is not very honest, but that’s just me. The truth of the matter is that people who are told what to do are often told how to do it. The truth of the matter is that for most people, their lives are like an endless stream of “what ifs” and “shoulds.” If you are told what to do, then you can do it.
But what if you don’t have a life? What if you’re just a brain in a vat full of blood and feces? This is why we do the exercises. We do it because it helps us not to be so easily swayed. When we decide that we will try something new, we have to be able to say, “I will try this new thing that I’ve heard or read about and see if it makes sense.
I’ve done this exercise myself many times. But there’s a way to make it more manageable, in that it doesn’t have the same impact on our lives as if we were actually making a decision to do something. So instead of trying to force a decision, we simply say, “I’ll try it this way.” It’s like we’re saying, okay, I’ll start doing this this next week. This is as good of an excuse as any.
Just as a heads up, I would totally recommend avoiding that phrase. I know it’s not good for you, but a lot of people have heard it and think it’s a great way to tell you that something is wrong, so that you can figure out the other thing you need to do.
Well, I can definitely see the appeal of that. But I think that you’re taking it too far, and it’s just not really healthy to do that. We’re not talking about what you should be eating or doing or anything like that, we’re talking about your actual life. So instead of forcing a decision you simply say, I’m not gonna do that because no one around me is gonna do it.
I think this is a good strategy, but you should be careful about it because it can backfire. For example, you might say, if I don’t do this, then everyone around me is gonna do it. That’s not true, but it could be a factor in your next decision.
Yes, this is a good strategy. I dont know about you, but I dont want to be forced into a decision I dont want to make, but I do want to be forced into making a decision I dont want to make. So I just say, im not gonna do that, so no one around me is gonna do it. And you should be careful about this.
As you can imagine, this may be very annoying for you, but it can be very effective. If someone says something that you don’t want to hear, you can always be the person who says no. You can tell it like it is. You can also tell it with the force of your personality. After all, you are not making anyone else do what you really don’t want to hear, and you are not forcing anyone else to do something you do not want to see.
And we are not saying you should be proud of your views. We are saying that you should be smart enough to know the difference between what you want to and what they want to hear. You should know that no one really wants to hear you say no, and that no one is forcing you to say no. You should know that if you take that advice, your views may actually be hurtful to you.